10 Books on Mary + Motherhood Every Catholic Feminist Should Read
Part of our bookish series! đ
I hate parenting books.
When I was a brand new mom, I found myself flocking to the parenting section of the library. A special form of self torture? An existential crisis? A heaping pile of new-mom guilt with a dash of Catholic guilt? Who knows! But I soon learned that most parenting books belong in the garbage disposal.
Parenting books follow a very specific formula:
A big, scary problem (Most kids spend 7 hours a day on an iPad!)
The authorâs Big Solution (âŠthen I discovered my Certified Sleep RhythmTM!)
Practical tips (Hire an Italian chef to move into your mother-in-law suite!)
Theyâre bowls of guilt soup force-fed to us in a time when the last thing we need is more guilt and shame. Theyâre also all in disagreement with one another. One book insists sleep training is the only way youâll ever rest again, another says sleep training will traumatize your children for life. One book says your kids should be able to work a MacBook by kindergarten, another says a Smart Board in their classroom will permanently ruin their creativity. You get the picture.
So when I say books on motherhood, I mean books on the divine of mothering: books on what it means to be a mother, and how to better align our mothering with Christ. NOT how-to books by âparenting expertsâ. (Lol. Can you imagine claiming to be a parenting expert? Like literally calling yourself that? đ”âđ«) I will fess up that there are two books on this list Iâd consider âparenting booksâ but I promise that theyâre more memoir-style and donât leave you feeling like crap. You may not like them, agree with them, or want to implement their suggested principles, but you wonât throw them into a furnace. Probably.
I also wanted to include books on our ultimate parent role model: Mama Mary. Because if thereâs anyone we can look to as a mom-life role model, itâs her.
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With that being said, here are 10 Books on Mary and Motherhood Every Catholic Feminist Should Read, According to Exactly One Catholic Feminist (ie., me).