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Missy Rose Ewing's avatar

Well, slightly older demographic here - I read every Stephen King book I could borrow from the library in high school. My parents had zero idea what I read (latch key kid) and my best friend's parents didn't believe in censorship, so I read all the Christopher Pike novels my best friend read - starting in like 4th grade. I read a lot of dark books. They made me feel less alone in a life that had some dark things happening in it. (I also watched every episode of Sex and the City before my conversion.)

I read a lot of stuff with my kids that I don't mention we've read in our Catholic homeschooling community. (My big kids also watch a lot of stuff with my husband and I that we don't mention either.) Mostly because of shocked reactions like the one at the beginning of this piece. As I look back on my childhood watching and reading a lot of dark stuff, there was often things of value in it - the issue that led me astray was that I consumed it without discussion with a mature adult. So, if my kids want to consume media that I have questions about, we consume it together (within reason).

Intentionality plays such a big role for me. And as a stubborn/rebellious person raising at least one stubborn/rebellious kid, I don't think there's a better way to ruin the rebel's mystic than to accompany the kid in their consumption. My lyric recitations can ruin the cool factor of any song. And vice versa, I don't think there's a better way to fan the flames of rebellion than to ban content.

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Mackenzie Huff's avatar

This is such a good article not only for my own choices in what I consume but also as a wife and a parent. God does give us the gift of discernment and that’s beautiful. My husband is a huuuuge metal head and I was of those teens reading the dark books (and I might still be lol). It’s okay to learn about other stories, and it’s another to live those stories out. We can’t avoid sin- it’s all around us - it’s how we deal with it that matters. Thank you for what you do!

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